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Game recognize game. Men and women have been barraged with the message that women are not naughty by nature. They are thought of as hardwired to hunt for a partner and a mate, while men pursue sex as a pleasurable act in and of itself.
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But socially, many straight men still find it a turnoff when women are sexual aggressors.
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Here, again, perhaps the animal kingdom can be a source of inspiration. Sex for pleasure: Women want sex Brainard sooner we can agree that pleasure is one major motivation to pursue sex — for both men and women — the sooner we can all start instigating it. Already a subscriber? Log in or link your magazine subscription.
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